1. Truly said - "no pain no gain."
Pain is a part of your growing up. Can you imagine your life today without the pain you went through in the past? Pain teaches you a lot, most of all - it gives you the power to ACCEPT. There is a reason for everything in this world and so there's a reason you're going through what you're going through today. If good things happen to you everyday, you won't understand the difference between good and bad after all. So, don't avoid the pain, make room for it. It's a part of life.
2. Embrace your feelings, be positive and spread the positivity around (since there's severe shortage of that in this world).
When you're going through a tough phase, you will come across people who'll try to constantly bring you down. Especially in those times, you keep your chin up and smile. Smile at the fact that good things are just around the corner. Don't let the world show you a mirror, show them the mirror instead.
3. Believe in destiny.
Believing in destiny could be positive AND negative. I say, take it in your stride. If you'll start believing in the fact that what has to happen, eventually happens, you'll soon be able to bid goodbye to all your wounds. If life was all glorious, it wouldn't be called life, it would be known as 'heaven'.
4. Don't complain, don't explain.
Take responsibility for your own actions because people who are used to blaming others, get nowhere in life. Whatever you did that brought you to where you're standing today, is all because of you, even if it was because of someone else's influence. The day you'll learn to only care about your mistakes, your life and your worries when you are sad, you'll reach heights.
5. Wipe your tears, everything is temporary.
If something has started today, it will end tomorrow - the time span can vary but the fact remains the same. However, hurtful things are always temporary until and unless you take its burden forward and keep it close to your heart always. There's no way this bad time can last forever, but it's in your hands to decide its time span. It can end in one day if you want or it can last for a few years if you like. The ball is in your court, wipe your tears and get ahead of this right away or keep remembering and crying over it. I'd say - get the hell out of your city for a week, meet new people, distract yourself and come back with a bang.
6. You keep going no matter what.
It's not easy to go through every tough phase of life and come out of it with a smile. That phase breaks most of us but pulling yourself out of it on your own is the best thing you can do for yourself. You should know you got all these worries, stress and wounds because you are strong enough to face them. Now that it's about to get over, stand up, laugh and get ready for good things that are about to come your way. Love again, chase your dreams again, live AGAIN... because you truly deserve it.
7. Don't hide your scars, be proud of them.
Your scars will always remind you of your strength. They'll also tell you that the bad time is over, it's shut in that wound that you filled with your own will. You survived through those times of endless pain and worry, now it's time to boast about it. There's nothing to be ashamed of - only good things happen to people who face the toughest challenges with a good heart and never give up. These scars will soon be a new way of attracting people towards you (no kidding).
8. Every positive step right now is a step forward.
You won't even get to know that the hardship is over if you don't go through each and everything you're going through deeply right now. Every step in this struggle is a step forward for you. To smile when you don't feel like smiling, to talk when you really don't want to talk, to sing to yourself to calm yourself down, to distract yourself from every bad thing that may happen, to laugh and to live - every bit of it is a STEP. It's an experience you'll soon cherish. A step towards your glory, a step towards success, a step towards a "happy ever after" life.